Beta bait and shit tests are similar concepts with some notable distinctions.Shit tests occur with the most regularity and intensity during early game, and at times when the relationship is on the skids.In other words, they’re just looking for that initial physical attraction. And the whole point of these apps is meant to be the immediacy, but weirdly most people don’t even message the person they’ve matched with. If your girl has 200 matches, rest assured she’s probably only spoken to 20 of them. It’s all kinda unnecessary and distracts from the real question.It doesn’t really matter who messages who first, we don’t live in the 50s. Do you like this person, and would you sleep with them?Occasionally, after you have been dating a girl for a few weeks, she will ask if you are seeing other girls.This is the worst sort of beta bait because it is so innocuous sounding.Harvey, the author of the 2009 relationship book that inspired two films, told his audience member that limiting herself to the men in her church may be a bad idea."You know, there's a lot of good men not at your church.
If her main pic happens to be a sultry, look-at-me selfie, Spira suggests flipping through her other pictures to make sure they're not all the same.Now that ‘online dating’ is no longer secretive or taboo, it’s officially become a day-to-day part of our lives, whether you or your friends are on Tinder, Raya, JSwipe or just sliding in someone’s DM’s.But the term ‘online dating’ already feels so dated; it’s not really relevant for our generation.Shit tests are more obvious than beta bait, and thus easier to pass for men with excellent awareness of female hypergamy tactics.A shit test can be quite bold and shocking to newb ears and thus scare off lesser men, but the inveterate player always operates with the frame that shit tests and other assorted confusing and bitchy female behavior are an rather than an obstacle to demonstrate his mate value.